POLL: The "Original" Wilder Report I (Where did this all come from?)

Hello Gentlemen (and Ladies), Well, you know how fascinated I am by all of this so I'm very curious about how this craving started with you. I always ask the "spanko" people I meet and have noticed some trends. Some of you have had this desire since you were very small, some in your teens, some as young men and some ... very recently!

I would love to know what the percentages are - just think of me as Kinsey. (Well, I'm a bit cuter than Kinsey was.) Anyway, even though it's not very scientific, it covers everything I have heard to date.

This ... is the WILDER Report.

I'm going to list possible answers and I'm going to ask you to:

1. Type ONLY the letter(s) that apply to you at the top of the post.
2. Under that, type your gender and current age (feel free to post anonymously.)
3. If you'd like to add something (a comment, your experience, whatever) then skip a couple of spaces before you type it. This will make it easier for me to tally without having to search through your writing to find your choice.

Like so:

A, K, L
Male 56

Then write your personal comments here, if you like.


If you have not posted exactly like this - your post CANNOT be counted! If you realize that you did it wrong - you may go back and REPOST (copy and paste your incorrect post underneath your answers so I'll know which one you were.)


Okay, let's go. Pick just as many as you need that apply to you and your experiences.

CHILDHOOD/TEENS

A. I was spanked bare-bottom by my mother and/or father and I know that is where this started.

B. I was spanked bare-bottom by my mother and/or father but it had no affect on this at all, it came from somewhere else.

C. I was spanked bare-bottom by another woman (an aunt, neighbor, teacher, employer, etc.) and found it titillated at the time or later on whenever I thought about it.

D. I was spanked by my parents once in awhile but it was not bare-bottom and not ritualistic and did not have any affect on this, it came from somewhere else. .

E. I was spanked by my parents once in awhile but it was not bare-bottom and not ritualistic and that IS where this all started for me.

F. I was hit or beaten by my parents but not spanked in any way and this has nothing to do with that, it came from somewhere else.

G. I was hit or beaten by my parents but not spanked in any way and for some reason I crave spankings because they feel different.

H. I was NEVER spanked or hit by my parents but even as a child I just felt like I wanted to be spanked.

I. I was NEVER spanked or hit by my parents - this desire came from somewhere else.

J. As a child or teen I saw or overheard another child/teen being spanked and it titillated me.

K. As a child or teen I saw something (magazine, photo, book, etc ...) of this and it titillated me.

L. A nun or priest was the one who did the spanking and that's where it came from.

M. I like to roleplay the initial event that triggered this for me.

ADULT

N. I discovered I had this desire as an adult in my 20's.

O. I discovered I had this desire as an adult in my 30's.

P. I discovered I had this desire as an adult in my 40's.

Q. I discovered I had this desire as an adult in my 50's.

R. I discovered I had this desire as an adult in my 60's.

S. I came across it on the internet and it titillated me.

T. I saw it somewhere (magazine, book, video, film, etc...) and it titillated me.

U. A woman (wife, girlfriend, date, etc...) I knew suggested it or did it to me and I immediately liked it.

V. I started out being the spanker and then began to feel like I wanted to be spanked as well.

W. I don't know where it came from, I just started to feel like I wanted a woman to dominate me in this way.

X. It turns me on sexually.

Y. It doesn't turn me on sexually.

Z. Other (please explain briefly here. You can go into details below if you like.)


Thank you for your participation!

121 comments:

  1. dactarsspeed9/6/06, 6:47 AM

    Hi Miss F glad you are back.That Edna seem a bit special but I digress
    So I will go with H.M.W.and X

    I am 59 now and just an ordinary male.Always wanted to be spanked over the knee of a mature woman for some kind of teenage misdeed which I have to say I got away with a few.
    I recently found a domestic disciplinarian who I had a great roleplay session with. I hope to revisit.
    It cannot be very often i am afraid my Wife who I love cannot enjoy this desire with me. So I have to approach it with the utmost discretion.
    Take care, D

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  2. J, X and Z.

    Spanking was commmon when I was a kid, and though my parents didn't spank, hearing about it titillated me. At 11, I was ritualistically spanked by a male teacher (not bare bottomed but in front of other kids.) At 14, I witnesssed a 13 year old neighbor girl getting strapped bare bottemed by her father for pulling her pants down in front of me.

    I have been interested in getting spanked by a woman since I was 14.

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  3. Survey C Spanked bare bottom by my Aunt,never excited at the time(only sore and humiliated)but would find myself thinking about it weeks or even months later. J Overheard older female cousin getting bare bottom spanking and got excited thinking what it must have looked like. M Like to roleplay getting bare bottom spanking for transgressions " I got away with". Z I am not sure I ever really get sexually aroused when I reflect back on my spanking experiences as much as it arouses feelings deep in my soul that I only feel when try to deal with these uniqe feelings. A spanking was always a painful and embarrassing ordeal for me but years later I get a good feeling about these experiences. Male---- 56 years old Many Thanks

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  4. welcome back !

    Male here 59
    A,L,N,X,Y

    Love how a hard spanking and corner time fills me with a feeling of peace.Am fortunate to have met a woman who delivers this needed spanking on a weekly basis.

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  5. B. J. L. X.

    Male 47

    When I was young, preteen, a girl of similar age lived downstairs from me. We would play a house like game in which we would cut switches and whip each other's bare bottoms. I definitely liked to receive better than to give. Spankings have turned me on ever since.

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  6. M, N, W.


    Im a male, 49, living in Europe. I just LOVE this site - it´s wonderful to know, that I´m not the only person in the world, who is spanked OTK.

    I discovered this in my 20´s - and suggested this to my wife, at about 25 years of age. She wouldn´t participate, so I had to go to a pro, - and was spanked OTK. It was a wonderful experience, and I have been spanked by this Lady ever since. As written, I´m 48, and she is now 69, - it´s a very special feeling, to getting your bottom spanked by a mature, very experienced Lady, who knows all about spanking over the knee, humiliation, corner time, etc.
    I have suggested it again to my wife some months ago, and I was exstremely happy when she said ; "well, okay an over the knee spanking maybe is a good idea, - I really wonder, how it must feel, to spank you - hmm - well let´s look into it, in the near future".
    Can you imagine how happy I got ?
    She is now on vacation in Greece, and have been for 14 days. She is gonna come home Sunday, and I have been writing a long letter to her, begging her, to please make rules, house rules, bedtime rules (early bedtime for me when spanked and so on). 2 times not so long ago, she punished me with very early bedtime, so she is starting to discipline me - so - I´m really hoping for my first bare bottom spanking over the knee, from my wife, when she returns by this Sunday.
    Sorry, this was mayby to long ?

    Regards
    Tom

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  7. D, X
    Male, 40s

    My childhood spankings were rare, mild (a few whacks), and have no erotic associations for me. My interest in being dominated by women - of which spanking is but one aspect - arose in early adolescence, commingled with my first sexual fantasies. I can't pinpoint a particular observation or encounter that triggered it.

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  8. A,K,M

    MALE, 54

    Enjoy your blog - keep up the good work.

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  9. Carmen from Queens9/7/06, 3:15 PM

    I was never spanked as a child but my fascination with spanking started when I was 13 years old and delivering news papers.One evening when I was preparing to make my weekly collections I peered into a customers' open front door and saw a teenage girl draped over her mother's knee with her shorts pulled down (skimpy panties were part way down) receiving a sound spanking that had her sobbing and wiggling. I saw about 10 or 12 spanks before leaving the scene. I returned the next day as if nothing had happened and for the next two years went out of my way to visit the house whenever I could but never saw a repeat performance. That few short minutes changed my life forever although it is a completely isolated event. I am a male 48 years old and really love reading about old fashion spanking experiences.Love your Blog, keep up the great work.I often wonder what I would be like if that poor young lady's panties had been pulled all the way down.Thanks,Carmen

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  10. Tony
    35 male

    C,L,N,U,Z

    C- first spanking was when i was 12 and was being raised
    by an aunt. Bent over the arm of the sofa, shorts around
    my ankles. Being bare assed and paddled with her belt,
    seemed to burn in my brain. It continued on an almost
    weekly basis till i was about 15.

    L-While a freshman in college at a jesuit school was
    spanked by a priest when i was caught smoking. It
    was intense and the humilation of it stirred me.

    N-Although I thought about it often i was out of college
    before I admitted to myself that this spanking thing
    was something I craved. The humilation and the pain
    seemed to stir me.

    U- The first woman that spanked me as an adult was an
    older woman I had dated for a ffew weeks. I realize
    now I was drawn to her becasue she was older ...I
    was 23 and she was near 40. She took charge and
    when I confessed that I would like a spanking she
    was happy to obige.

    Z- Now some 12 or so years later I am married to that
    lady. Her spankings are for discipline and are some
    times harsh. I am often brought to tears but after
    although now aroused I so enjoy sobbing at her knees
    amd perhaps being allowed to please her orally as
    my tears dry and my ass cheeks burn.

    ps I am so happy wiith our life . thanks for being able to
    relate this here.

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  11. A, K, L, X.
    Male, 56.

    Once by father -- no fun, not a trigger.

    Once by mother -- no fun then, maybe 7 years old, very ritualistic, scolding, pants & underpants taken down, on couch in front of the picture window. May have been a trigger. The fantasy lingers (with my mother being replaced by someone sexy, such as Ms. Francy, etc.)

    About the same age, one fun game with neighborhood girl, where I spanked her panties OTK. Always fascinated by women's bottoms. How & when the fascination became even stronger for their laps is unclear.

    Since teenager on, mostly fun dreams of OTL from various, teachers, nuns, women office mates, etc.

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  12. Wow ... this is fantastic! Keep it up! Let's get lots and lots of experiences here and eventually I'll compile them and and publish my findings, THE MISS FRANCY REPORT, here on CCC!

    Please continue to stick with the format of;

    J, K, L
    Male 56


    Then write your personal comments here.

    Thank you to all who are posting this way - it helps me immensely in tallying. Those of you who are NOT following my directions deserve to be spanked! (But I won't do it just for spite. So there!)

    I love it, love it, love it!

    Miss Francy

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  13. A & X

    I don't KNOW that this is where it started but I think so. One thing that was significant was that my sister's spankings stopped at six or seven, but mine did not. And she was allowed to watch. She rarely did but I still found it humiliating. My mother was very unhappy in her marriage and I think that she took some of it out on me. Today my parents would have divorced, in those days it was not so easy.

    When I was about 12 a neighbor girl of 15 or so got me over her knee. Those are my first erotic memories.

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  14. Hi Miss Francy!

    A
    M, 39

    I listed "A" but I'd change the definition slightly to " I think this is where it started" because there is some doubt in my mind but I can't prove anything. Plus, it was very, very rarely as I remember and always from Mom.

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  15. Whoops! Sorrry, I didn't follow the format.

    A & X
    Male 64

    There. What I get out of this is that I seem to think that no matter what I do a spanking will fix it, that I will still be loved and wanted. It is a very comforting thing.

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  16. I,J,K,V,X

    Male, 61.

    I'm a confirmed "switch", but bottoming has been my focus in recent years. For stories and pics, I love the F/f genre...would love to witness a naughty and haughty teen girl (18 or 19, of course...no minors) getting hairbrushed over her mom's knee.

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  17. Sandy from Scranton9/11/06, 9:44 AM

    JKX------Female,44 When I was 10 years old I saw my friend , who was 11,have her uniform skirt raised and her panties lowered by her grandmother for a sound over the knee spanking that left her teary eyed, snot running down her face and very very repentant.I would say she received anywhere from 25 to 35 hard cracks before being sent up to bed. I was supposed to be spending the night with my friend but considering the circumstances I felt it was better to go home.The subject never really came up again but my fires had been lit.I have been spanked a number of times over the years ( by my ex-husband and some other close friends including a woman 10 years older than me)but I get most excited when I fantise about being 10 years old and being next over my friend's grandmother's knee.I guess I will have to live with these thoughts and desires but I do look forward to the results of your survey.Thank You for the opportunity to share these thoughts we you and your readers. Love,Sandy from Scranton

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  18. I,O,T,W,X

    Male, 58

    I lived with a woman when I was in my thirties. We were both teachers. She was a P. E teacher and very strong and lovely. She disciplined me regularly when I needed it. When I say it aroused me sexually, I wasn't aroused when the spanking started. I would get aroused when I was doing the chores assigned to me such as, dusting, vacuuming, cleaning the bathroom, kitchen, etc. I had to wear panties around the apartment at all times. When I would get aroused she would tweak it a couple of times and say something like, "It's nice to see you responding positively to my discipline." That almost brought me to my knees.

    When she went shopping at the mall, she would take me with her. I would have to walk behind her and carry the packages. I almost always got aroused at this time. I have a rather large penis and when I get erect in my pants, it's like tent city. She would never let me cover myself with packages or try to hide it. I had to experience being humiliated by the giggles and stares of people, especially women. When we got in the car to go home, she would laugh and tell me how cute I looked walking through the mall with a hardon. Very embarrassing!

    Sorry this is so long. She moved away and got a better job and we parted, I couldn't go with her. I miss her. I have tried a few pros, but it's not the same.

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  19. Terri from the suburbs9/11/06, 2:56 PM

    Survey----N,T,X----Female, age,39 My interest in spanking can be traced to my mid twenties.I was very serious with a guy about ten years older than me but when he started talking about marrying me I told him my law career came first.He told me that I might regret my decision some day and that he thought what I needed was a good old fashioned spanking to clear my head . I told him I was indignant at such a notion and told him never to call me again. A few years later I ran into him and his new wife at a big social event. I had a few drinks and told him I did regret my answer a few years earlier but wished him well.What I didn't tell him was that that threat of a spanking stirred something inside and that virtually every guy I have been with since I have one way or another suggested that I need a good sound spanking to cure my bratty ways. Some have taken me very seriously and delivered others have laughed it off but there is no doubt that spanking is now a big part of my being .I get turned on by being spanked (hard enough to make me plea for it to be over)by reading about it and by talking about it.I hope to settle down with a guy who can satisfy this part of me and be able to love the successful lawyer and the little brat that once in awhile has to have her bottom bared for a good old fashioned spanking. Good luck with the survey, Fondly,Terri

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  20. C. and J.

    C. When I was 12 I was spanked bare bottom by my best friend's mother right after he was. Very embaressing but I think of it often. And spanked once by a female teacher, in private. She's now a role model in my my spanking fantasies!

    J. I observed numerous spankings of friends and their siblings, boys and girls, almost always by the moms. All of the memories feed my fanasies.

    Luckily, I have a wife who'll role play the stern maternal figure to my naughty teenage boy. Otrherwiae, very vannila.

    The poll results will be very interesting indeed!

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  21. Oops - on the previous post, I negleted to state I'm a male, age 51.

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  22. A,X
    Male 58


    Had this obsession with OTK since I was four or five years old.Wouldn't change it if I could.Somedays it's all I think about.

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  23. E, J, K, T, X

    I was spanked OTK as a child less than 6 times; something very powerful seemed to happen during and after those times. After I came of age sexually, I was able to read about F/M spanking and to find terms to describe what was happening to me and how I felt about it.

    It took many years before I could discuss this openly with my SO because to desire a memorable spanking seemed so unusual. It made me feel extremely vulnerable to bring up this subject.

    That vulnerablity and the spankings that typically followed have strengthened an already excellent marriage.

    jm

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  24. J&X----Female,age 46----When I was 16 I use to babysit for two kids who were 9 and 11.On one particular occasion they both were very out of control and refused to go to bed, I told them that I was going to call their mother who was at a social event just a few houses away.Frustrated I made the call and mom was home in a matter of minutes.After relating just how wild they had been that night she called both of them downstairs and proceeded to give both the nine year old boy and eleven year old girl sound over the knee spankings on their bare bottoms right in front of me. Although it was over in just a matter of minutes that event has had a major impact on me.Although I have never given or received a spanking I am intrigued by the subject and love to here stories about similar circumstances.

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  25. I fall under that once by an Aunt, I wasn't that young but I've never forgotten the humiliation/thrill of having to bend over her knees and the exilleration as she pulled my throsers down, to this day 40 odd years ago.

    Paddy P Ireland

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  26. B,D, K, X

    Male, Switch 65-plus

    Don't know where it came from, but it was there in childhood. My first knowledge came when my very pretty second grade teacher picked up a classmate, put him over one knee while leaning against a wall and gave him a birthday spanking and I felt it between my legs. After that (or perhaps even before) all my fantasies were about spanking, giving and getting. My ears would perk up whenever the word or synonyms were used. I particularly liked my sassy aunt and a few sassy teachers. The couple of spankings I received at home while growing up had no sexual charge for me. But everywhere else it was a different story. I played at an early age, exclusively as a spanker. While I had fantasies of being spanked, I worried that it might really hurt. In the eighth grade I found that I was not alone -- in two respects. A neighbor's child would come over often, place herself across my lap and invite me to pull her skirt up and spank her wedgied bottom. And a music teacher, almost every other class, brought up the topic of spanking. Once she had all of us stand up so she could survey our bottoms and allowed that day that spanking was "fun." I first switched in college and the experiment took. With the exception -- and it is a large exception -- of the 20-plus years I was married to a vanilla who plyed spanking game during courtship and then announced after a year of marriage she didn't like it, I've been spanking and being spanked most of the rest of my life -- all for pleasure and eroticism, almost exclusively hand spanking, but often with quite a bit of vigor after a warm-up.

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  27. For me its ANX

    When I was about 13 my father beat me bloody with his belt. It took over a month for the marks to heal up. I had blood in my underwear the next 2 days trying to sit in school. I developed an interest in fun spankings soon after. Did not actually do anything about it until I was over 40.

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  28. H, I, X,
    male, 35

    I know I'mlate jumping in.

    Do I derserve a spanking for that :)


    Mike
    aka_ireland

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  29. B,K,Y
    male, 34

    I was spanked on the seat of my underpants by both of my parents growing up (which an occasional bare-bottomed one thrown in). I brought this desire up with my wife and we are just at the beginning stages...

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  30. Childhood Teens - C, M

    Adult - N,X

    Male 50

    Vanilla marriage for 20 years then met Belinda my Nemesis (goddess of retribution)who has subsequently kept me under constant control with the skillful application of her cane. She awards both erotic and punishment canings both of which keep me aroused on a daily basis without the need for Viagra!

    She also spanks other errant males who crave a caning but cannot get it at home.....

    Hot Bottoms to all your male readers.

    Barry Spockings

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  31. O. I discovered I had this desire as an adult in my 30's.

    Not sure exactly but pretty sure the first times we experimented was when I was in my late 20's

    V. I started out being the spanker and then began to feel like I wanted to be spanked as well.
    Yes, indeed.... and then learned more about it from some of the teachers we know.... although still more sexual than the pure discipline sessions Miss Francy advocates

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  32. B,J,X
    I saw my two friends spanked by their mother. I was told to watch as she took them both by the ear, made them strip naked and bend over the edge of the their beds in turn. She was wearing 1950's short shorts with her own magnificent ass cheeks sticking out in a very provocative manner. Then she scolded them and spanked there bare behinds with a wooden hairbrush. I was 11 yrs old at the time and I had a very hard erection as I watched her fanny jiggling as she tanned their fannies. When she was done with one son she made him stand and watch the the other get spanked. I have no idea why I was asked to watch but it was a very formative experience for me. It has fueled my sexual fantasies more times than I can count! That was the only spanking I ever saw, but I saw her wearing those short shorts every summer day until they moved away. She had one gorgeous backside!
    My own bare bottom spankings did not turn me on at all, but taking my rectal temperature, both at home and at the doctors, office did turn me on. That's a topic for another survey.

    JayJay

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  33. J---K---X, Female,age 48.When I was 14 I watched my best friend at the time have her jeans and panties pulled down and have her bare bottom soundly spanked by her mother for talking back.I witnessed the entire incident and still get all tingly when I think about it.I have never been spanked but do fantasize about it.Roseanne

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  34. A, X

    Male, 51

    My mother was the disciplinarian in the family, and it was not unusual for one of us kids to find ourselves, bottom bared and over her knee. I saw her spank my sisters on occasion, and certainly heard them being disciplined. Her instrument of choice was one of those paddleball paddles that kids used to get at parties. It was kept in the kitchen drawer, and was a constant presence while we were young.

    Now as an adult it's a part of the play between my wife and me, but never in a serious way. Always fun and exciting, with me being on the receiving end. I even found a paddleball paddle one day, and she's used it on me. It carries quite a sting.

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  35. A, J, K, M, X

    Male 51

    Thank you, Miss Francy. I just found your blog, and I love it. I'm also fascinated by this and have always wanted to understand why it is and where it comes from. It's not something I've talked about much on a personal level. I wish I could discuss it with you, as I'm sure you must be very knowledgeable.

    A. "I was spanked bare-bottom by my mother and/or father and I know that is where this started."

    I don't know for sure, but I think it started there. It started very early, too early to remember clearly. I remember mom always had one of those paddle-ball paddles available and a spanking was a full embarrassing ritual featuring a very red bare bottom. It happened until about the age of 12 or so. I did not like it at all when it happened, but for some reason the idea later of the shame involved was something I had odd pleasurable thoughts about. I was always thinking about the punishment ritual, about kids getting spankings, and also the strangely exciting idea that another mother, female teacher, or such might subject me to the ritual.

    J. As a child or teen I saw or overheard another child/teen being spanked and it titillated me.

    Yes. Several incidents. Mostly overheard not actually seen. I'm not sure if this is where my interest started, but I always wanted to see or know about it happening to other kids, especially in my teens and if it happened to girls.

    K. As a child or teen I saw something (magazine, photo, book, etc ...) of this and it titillated me.

    Any reference to spanking was fascinating to me. I probably read many of the same books and saw many of the same movies with spankings in them that others remember. It wasn't until I discovered, in my late teens, some adult books about spanking that I began to realize I wasn't the only one who had such strange thoughts.

    M. I like to roleplay the initial event that triggered this for me.

    I don't know of an initial triggering event, but an event I experienced at home as a teenager was powerful enough that my fantasies about being spanked by a woman usually involve at least some elements from that memorable day. It was my only teenage spanking, and maybe because of my older age I was able to really appreciate the drama that was happening to me. The themes, the setting, the implement used are now somehow very potent symbols to me.

    X. It turns me on sexually.

    I haven't been spanked as an adult, but the idea is a big turn on.

    Ross

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  36. C---N---Z---Male, 41 years old.When I was 10 years old I got an over the knee spanking on the bare backside from my Grandmother for disappearing for over ten hours without telling her where I was.She took my pants and underpants down and gave me about thirty spanks on the bare cheeks with her hand.I received the spanking in front of my older sister,one of my younger sisters and two of my Aunts.The spanking was painful and embarrassing but I probably deserved it.Years later I still think about my one and only real spanking and although I can't say I really get sexually excited about it I do like reading about the experiences of others that have suffered a similar fate.Don't know if this helps with your survey but I figured it might so I am passing it along.Thanks, Darren

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  37. Male-51----J---K---X,When I was a teenager I heard my Aunt tell my mother that she spanked my two girl cousins over the knee on the bare butt when they disobeyed.I was never spanked nor have I ever witnessed one but when I was about 18 I read a magazine called "MR.MAGAZINE" that always had spanking stories in it.Ever since than I have been hooked by spanking and I am sure it started when I overheard my Aunt's conversation with my mother. Hope this helps,Dennis

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  38. Male,48 years old,C,J,K,L,N,V,X.________I grew up in a small town in upstate New York.The only spanking I ever received as a child was from my Aunt(who also happened to be a Nun).I was 11 and my cousin was 10.She and I were being taken care of by our Aunt while our parents were at an out of state wedding.We went to a movie without getting permission and my Aunt went out looking for us.When we got home we both got stern scoldings and than we both got sound over the knee spankings from Aunty on the bare seat with the palm of her hand.I will never forget the sight of my cousin's pink fanny.My spanking hurt but not for very long.Years later I would look for stories about spankings in magazines and would always try to spank my girl friends.(Some liked it ,some didn't)I married a girl who liked it but the spankings stopped after the babies came. Now I would rather get one than give one and I have found a few good pros over the years that have given me a good sound bare bottom spanking.I figure it all has to go back to the spankings my cousin and I got back in 1969.Best Regards,Jim

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  39. This is going swimmingly, folks! Keep posting ... I would so love to have 100 to make this a somewhat scientific study, even though it is anonymous. I think it could be a good barometer.


    Miss F.

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  40. Hi, My name is Cindy and I would like to respond to your survey.I am 43 years old and was spanked on the bare bottom by my mother until I was 11.My two younger brothers also were spanked until about the same age.Recently I have seen numerous references to spankings in books, magazines and the internet and I find myself excited by it.I hope to someday explore this interest further. Survey A, P, T, X Best Wishes, Cindy

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  41. I contributed to this blog a while back (Spanked at Work Question) but realize that I should respond to the survey as well.My name is Susan (age-44)and my Survey responses are as follows: I,J,V,X---I witnessed two youngsters getting bare bottom spankings when I was 17 and it clearly has stayed with me.I have both given and received sound bare bottoms spankings with both sexes (I am bisexual)but I now really enjoy roleplaying with an older woman who is very expert in turning my tushie a very bright red. It definitely all started when I watched those poor youngsters get punished over a quarter century ago.Sincerely,Susan

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  42. These responses are all really wonderful ... and so nice to see the ladies posting here, too! We ALL have these urges and I am fascinated by where they originate in both sexes.

    One thing is confusing me, though. Those of you who choose "Y. It doesn't turn me on sexually." perplex me. Why would you go searching on the internet and thinking about it so often if it didn't? Perhaps I should have added (or I am aroused in some way by it) to that line of question.

    I'm guessing that some of you men interpret being "turned on sexually" with a full-blown erection. Or that you think of it only as a prelude to sex. That's not what I meant at all. The context I am referring to is that it, in some way, titillates you. It makes you want to think about it again and relive it in your mind. There is some pleasurable feeling going on inside you at the thought of it or before, during or after a spanking. No sex or an erection or getting wet (for the ladies) need occur - just a somewhat sexy feeling.

    The only time I can imagine someone NOT being aroused or titillated or turned on by it would be someone who had it done as an adult non-consensually or someone who truly feels they did something very wrong and the spanking gave them an outlet to relieve some of the guilt, like Catholics going to confession.

    So I am going to ask you, if you choose "Y" after this clarification could you please try to explain afterwards what it IS that does make you want to be spanked if arousal doesn't play into it all.

    If you answered "Y" previously and would like to change it or explain it more, please put the new info first then copy and paste your original response below it in the same comment. This will help me be more accurate.

    Gosh, I am being so scientific about this! I am so proud of myself.

    Miss Francy

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  43. Female, Age--52------C,J,N&Y.I was raised by my grandparents and Grandma was a strict disciplinarian who believed in bare bottom over the knee spankings for serious disobedience.I received my last bare bottom spanking at age 14 for a serious breach of curfew.My older sister got one at 16 and my two younger brothers received trips over her knee well into their teen years.In my twenties I discovered a mild fascination with spankings and now I get excited when I read about it or see references to it in old movies and the like.Except for a playful spank on the seat of my pants from a boyfriend or two I have never experienced one since that last trip over Grandma's lap many years ago.Thank You, Gretchen

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  44. male 54

    a,c,j,k,t,x,z

    Since I was a young child, spankings and the thought of spankings have aroused, titillated and enthralled me. When I was 6 or 7 years old there was a television show called "My Little Marjie" (I think) about a teenage girl whoes hijinks always led to an old fashioned over the knee spanking by the end of the episode. I remember sitting there with an erection (years away from an ejaculation) and reveling in the tingle caused by the embarrassment of the situation.
    I especially loved situations where men were emasculated by their feminine yet strong wives, or where any male was publicly humiliated and put in their place by a curvy no-nonsense female. I fantasized about having neighborhood girls a few years older than me take my pants down at school or on the playground while I put up a weak, futile struggle in front of a laughing crowd.
    When I was 17 I had a girlfriend who was into spanking me. She once dragged me out of a restaurant by my arm, across a parking lot by my earlobe, took my pants down in broad daylight and then spanked me with her hairbrush in the backseat of our car until (my fantasy come true) I broke down crying. We eventually broke up and I lost touch with her.
    I've been married for twenty years to the same loving woman. She knows all my secrets. Sometimes she indulges me when I ask for a spanking. She admits that she does not share the interest though.
    Thanks for this blog. I thought I was alone for a long time.

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  45. Survey, J.....K....X....Female, age 33. As a teenager (about 15)I was at a friend's house and witnessed one of her little brothers (he was about 11) get an over the knee bare bottom spanking from her mother for talking back.It happened so fast that it was over before I really knew what was happening. My friend didn't give a second thought to it but she did confide in me that she was not exempt from such discipline from her mother as well.I was fascinated by it and have been ever since I saw this young boy have his bottom turned a nasty pink by his mother's palm.I read and "surf" the web looking for similar stories and that is how I found your site.The stuff really turns me on but I keep it as my little secret.Happy to have contributed to your survey.All the Best, Molly

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  46. I'm 73 and was always turned on sexually by spanking both giving and receiving, for the past few years I have been unable to rise to the occasion but I still enjoy a weekly spanking from my wife. I find it relieves the stress and I always feel good afterward.

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  47. I'm 69, and was never spanked until I asked my wife to spank me about 5 years sgo. She is wonderful about it, though she has no interest in being spanked. She's just loving and generous. No role playing, it just turns me on.. go figure. (she will sometimes use a strap-on on me as well) I do know how lucky I am!

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  48. I was married very young age 19, to an older woman, 7 years my senior. Right after we were married, she introduced me
    to spanking and discipline. At first, I didn't enjoy it and found it rather different. But she enjoyed it so much that
    she insisted it become a part of our relationship. I became her little boy in the bedroom and she became my mommy.
    The rest is history. She passed away many years ago and I have a new mommy who also believes in feminine supremacy
    and firm discipline in the household. It was made extremely clear just quite recently, that she wears the pants
    in the bedroom and that I am to submit to all of her naughty desires and expectations. One thing I have learned,
    if I want my life to go smoothly I say, "yes mommy". All is well.

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  49. C. an Aunt caught me in an embarasing situation in my teens an put me over her knee
    I'm male in my 50's
    I was never spanked before that or since but still turns me on now even telling someone about it, or thinking of it.

    Paddy P.

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  50. C, J, D,

    Male, 35


    Great site Miss Francy! My fascination with spanking started at the age of 10 after receiving a belt spanking from an attractive and strict aunt. My Aunt Karen, a divorced mother of two boys, ages 11 and 8 at the time, had married my father’s brother. After her divorce though she remained very close with my mother and we often spent time over her house and vice versa.

    Aunt Karen was a kind, loving mother and aunt but also very strict and spanking was clearly her favored method of discipline. During one of many sleepovers, my cousins and I were being typically rowdy at bedtime. My aunt shouted up the stairs several times to warn us to get to sleep. I remember we were playing pirates and using my cousin’s bunk bed as the ship. I was climbing the ladder to the top bunk to reach my older cousin when he pushed the ladder down and I fell to the floor making a loud thud. I quickly jumped up and put the ladder back in place. But suddenly the door burst open and the light went on. I turned so see Aunt Karen rushing into the room with a leather belt. She was fuming and I still remember her yelling, “I WARNED YOU TO GET TO SLEEP BUT YOU KEPT AT IT!!! NOW I’M GOING TO BEAT YOUR ASSES!!!”

    Having the misfortune of being the closest to her, I got it first. She grabbed my arm, spun me around and began whipping my backside over my underpants. I struggled to get free but her grip was too strong. She got frustrated at my squirming and yelled at me to stand still. She then pinned me flush against the dresser which was built into the bunk bed and yanked my underpants to my feet. She must’ve whipped my bare bottom about 15 – 20 times before pushing me to the bed and warning me to get to sleep. I quickly pulled up my underpants in embarrassment and through tears watched my cousins receive the same punishment. They clearly got it worse, with my older cousin being bent over a chair in the room.

    I can still recall the scene very vividly and it was definitely the single most formative event for me with respect to spanking. However, not long after the incident my parents separated and my mother and I moved in with my aunt for almost a year. My aunt was a hair dresser and my mother a waitress. So typically my mother would send us off to school in the morning but my aunt would be home after school while my mother was off to work. This arrangement was clearly a factor. Though I only received one other brief hand spanking from my Aunt Karen (this time just over my PJ’s for talking back), I frequently overheard and occasionally witnessed her spank my cousins for everything from talking back and foul language to bad report cards. All of this definitely contributed to this fascination with spanking.

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  51. Hi Miss Francie
    I would say b I was spanked almost daily by my father never by my mother, and I hated it. Yet as a child I knew there was something I liked about the idea of a woman spanking me. I liked hearing my friends talk about the spankins their moms gave them.
    As A teen ager I was a V and playfully spanked my dates , some liked it and some didn't. One day in my late teens after spanking a date in the back seat of my car she suggested she spank me, I thought it a great idea and when she did I became highly aroused and climaxed on her dress. She was really mad about it and would never date me again ,I guess that makes me an X also.

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  52. I was never spanked as a child but always wanted to be. Tried to get the neighborhood girls to spank me, never did, but did have 3 of my friends spank me bare bottom once, we were about 10

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  53. I am 64 yrs old. I have had a deire to be spanked since about age 5. My mother constanly threatened it. My brother got spanked often for wetting his bed.

    At about 5 I asked him to spank me with a belt. and several times after that as we grew up.

    I told my wife about this before we married. She is not really into it but does cooperate and spank me 8 or 10 times a yr.

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  54. Thank you all for posting BUT you MUST do it as the instructions tell you to so that I can tally this properly.

    CHOOSE the LETTERS first,
    then your GENDER & your AGE

    or your post CANNOT be counted!

    Like so:

    A, K, L
    Male 56

    Then write your personal comments here.

    Thank you to all who are posting this way.

    Miss F

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  55. C,J
    Male 51

    Reposted:


    C. and J.

    C. When I was 12 I was spanked bare bottom by my best friend's mother right after he was. Very embaressing but I think of it often. And spanked once by a female teacher, in private. She's now a role model in my my spanking fantasies!

    J. I observed numerous spankings of friends and their siblings, boys and girls, almost always by the moms. All of the memories feed my fanasies.

    Luckily, I have a wife who'll role play the stern maternal figure to my naughty teenage boy. Otrherwiae, very vannila.

    The poll results will be very interesting indeed!

    Tuesday, September 12, 2006 5:17:40 PM

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  56. j, x
    male age 45

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  57. B,J,X
    Male 60

    Sorry for not posting correctly Miss F. Please accept my humble apology. Jayjay

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  58. bjx
    male55

    CHILDHOOD/TEENS
    B. I was spanked bare-bottom by my mother and/or father but it had no affect on this at all, it came from somewhere else

    ADULT
    N. I discovered I had this desire as an adult in my 20's
    X. It turns me on sexually.

    Z. Other
    I've been fascinated with it for as long as I can remember. I mean going back to early childhood and playing house or school with my sisters and thier friends in the neighborhood.
    Somehow I was always the kid and they were the authority figure (mom, teacher...etc)and inevitably somehow disciline always ended up being a part of our play

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  59. B, P X

    Just enjoy it

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  60. b j x

    Male 53

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  61. E J X
    Male 65

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  62. B, C, M, O, T

    Male,55

    Got spanked alot by mom. I hated it.
    Got spanked by an aunt for using bad
    language. She made me hold a bar of
    Ivory soap in my mouth during the
    spanking. Then she washed my mouth
    out. She had the audacity to ask me,
    during the spanking, if the soap
    tasted good. I didn't like it at the
    time......it's been on my mind ever
    since.

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  63. n,w.x
    male 55

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  64. H, L, V, X

    Male, 57

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  65. D,J,X
    Male age 50

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  66. B,J,X
    Male 48

    I'm not sure where it started, but it was there from the beginning. I remember at about age 6, my first cousin (female) and I would play 'spanking'-- she was the same age as me. I remember seeing her get bare-bottom spankings from her mother (my aunt), and I found that exciting. By puberty, the thought of being spanked by an attractive teacher or aunt was very appealing. I don't remember feeling anything erotic, though, about the real spankings received from my mother.

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  67. male 50

    cmx

    Spanked by my aunt from age 4-12 at her place during summer months. Always "bared bottom" over her lap. Parents did not spank but knew she spanked me. At the time of the spankings the feelings where very mixed and confusing...

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  68. D, O, X,
    male 51

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  69. D, N, V, X

    Male 51

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  70. B J X Z

    Female 59

    I was introduced to the pleasures of spanking by a boyfriend early in life. He was very good at lighting a fire on my frontside as he set fire to my backside. I had my first real orgasm over his knee. He played with my pussy as he spanked my bare fanny.

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  71. D J K X
    Male 43

    Been a spanko as long as I can remember... in prep (5 yo) can remember seeing kid getting his legs smacked and feeling "funny"...

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  72. INWX

    I stumbled onto your site after reading rkb's column in the village voice. i must say that i find it very enjoyable.

    A bit about myself: I have a pretty high pressured job and i find that it is good to come home at the end of the day and switch roles somewhat. Fortunatley I have a wife that is o.k. with this and enjoys it as well.

    thans for your blog and I wish you a healthy and happy new year.

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  73. INWX

    thanks for this blog. i really enjoy the discussion.

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  74. H W X
    Male 47

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  75. I, T, X, Z
    male, 57

    I stumbled across "The Story of O" in my late teens, and I found it incredibly erotic. I enjoyed fantasizing about being in control of that compliant young woman, who endured all manner of intense corporal punishment. But I found it even more exciting to imagine being on the receiving end.

    Since then I've found that I really do enjoy spanking and being spanked. I particularly enjoy bare-hand spankings. There's something about that flesh-on-flesh contact that's very intimate. Use an implement, and you lose something.

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  76. C, H, K, X

    My parents weren't spankers. Got hit by my mom once with a wooden spoon while lying on a bed, Did get some over the knee time with her during toilet training and illnesses for suppository insertion. my fascination with OT (Stockinged)K positioning probably comes from that and playful spankings administered bare-bottomed over a schoolgirl babysitter's cabled tights a couple of years later. When I first started masturbating at around eight, i would seek out pics of women and girls in cable tights and knee socks and do it while imagining being spanked on their knees.

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  77. A, P

    Male, 77



    I have only gotten into spanking in a BIG way in the last 10 years. Before that, it was only occasional.

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  78. A,J,M,X

    Male 54
    At about 6 or 7 yrs of age I played doctor with the girls next door. They were all older than me and they took great delight in taking off my clothes. I took delight in letting them do it as my little dick would testify. It was usually hard. On several occasions we were caught by our mothers and spanked bare bottom on the spot. Later on, at home and alone in my room I would undress, look at my red behind in the mirror, and rub my dick. I knew nothing at all about sex but I knew what felt good down there and I had my first orgasm (no ejaculation) after a sound spanking for playing doctor.

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  79. Miss F. Edna just sat me down and says I must comment or else!!!!

    C-K-M-N-T-X

    Edna's Bobbie

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  80. Hi Miss F,

    51 yr old Male

    C-H-W-X

    My parents never spanked me, but my Grandmother spanked me a couple of times and when I was twelve she gave me my Birthday spanks (not bare) and I still remember that closest feeling, being over her lap and her hairbursh coming down for the 12 spanks and one to grow on.
    My first adult spanking was when I was 30 and my girlfriend spanked me on my Birthday and we both liked it so we continued to use it as foreplay. Now married to my wife who use to spank me when we were dating but after we were married she stopped, said it didn't feel right. So what can you do. I still love her more then anything. Wish I could find someone to spank me.
    Eric

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  81. Sorry Miss F misposting posted

    C-H-W-X
    51 yr old Male

    Eric

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  82. A,C,J,K
    Male 58

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  83. I,J,K,T,X
    Male 57

    Wonderful site. Thanks for all the hard work you obviously put into it.

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  84. spanked guy1/5/07, 11:24 AM

    B,N,U,X

    Male 53

    My girlfriend and now wife suggested it. If you want fellatio then you MUST submit to a spanking she said. What man can refuse anything for a blow job? That was the only sex that I got until we were married. A spanking and then, If I behaved well during my punishment, a blow job! I love it to this day!!

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  85. Bobbie male - 37
    Edna's husband, Edna insist that I make a comment for John on item C

    When I was around 17 years old I was taking tennis lessons from a woman who was in her early 30's or late 20's. I thought I was getting quite good until the instructor, Miss Singer had me play against a girl who was a year or two older. My opponet totally dominated the match and I never scored a point. I was totally furious over my play and being dominated by the girl. In frustration I took my rachet and beat it on the ground completely distroying it. Suddenly Miss Singer in a very stern voice said "Bobbie what is the matter with you? Are you that upset over the match? Come hear this instance." I walked over to her whining like a big baby that the girl didn't play fair and she commented that she would show me whats fair. With that she took by my ear took me over to a bench sat down litterly flung my over her knee, jerked my tennis shorts down and commenced to administer a bare bottom spanking with her hand right in front of the girl who had so soundly defeated me. Miss Singer then lectured me on my throwing such a tantrum and having earned a spanking in front of the girl. She had me balling and kicking like a child before she let me up. She then made me apologize to the girl for my behavior. I kept up the lessons afterward but learned to control my temper.

    That night I couldn't get the incident out of my mind knowing the young girl had watched me get a spanking like a child.

    John - I hope this satisfies you and I am still embarassed over the thought of it. I hope something similiar happens to you so you can find out what its really like. Bobbie

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  86. D J M X
    Male Aged 67

    In elemantary school 1945 to 1951 the female teachers used over the lap paddling discipline. Sometimes before the whole class sometimes in another room where you could hear the sounds. It was tintilating and exciting. In the winter they (female) usually wore fur coats which I love OTK AND fur coats on the lady disciplinarians

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  87. H W X

    Male 66

    I've craved spankings as long as I can remember although never spanked as a child. When I was married I never brought up the subject because of embarrassment. Since I've been divorced I have opened up more but have not been satisfied with the results. In the last 30 years I seen many prodoms and have taken a few "vacations" centered on BDSM themes. These are somewhat enjoyable but lacking in intensity. The underlying reason for my seeking punishment may be related to my lifestyle as a former pot grower and self made millionare. Life has been easy as I stoped working at the age of 33.

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  88. D,K,W,and X

    Male 43

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  89. D,K,X
    MAle 44
    Patrick

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  90. A, J, K, X
    Male 56
    My wife and I used to "switch" and we stopped when she was pregnant. When we resumed, she only wanted to be the spanker. Over time, she started spanking for discipline and for infractions. Eventually, she used spanking as an exit strategy for any type of conflict or argument. Now, even when she is the one at fault, and especially if I get angry with her (not a good idea), it will get turned around so that I am blistered under the pretext that I was wrong and that is how we return to harmony. I am not complaining, just relating the way it works in our household.

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  91. A
    Male 47
    I've conducted my own informal survey and found reliable data hard to come by. I'm convinced that the critical experience may come so early in childhood that many people don't remember it - this is almost certainly the case with people who believe their interest in spanking dates to their adolescence.

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  92. A, W, X
    Male 47

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  93. c,h,l,m,n,x male 56

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  94. D, J, V?, X
    Male, 61

    I commented on some of this in an earlier poll but I don't know if anyone goes back to the early ones so I will briefly restate my beginnings here.

    I think I was always fascinated by spankings. I can remember trying to get some neighbors to put on a play when I was about 8 where I would be a naughty boy spanked by one of the girls who was a few years older than I.

    That never happened but my interest was reawakened by a series of high school incidents--one where a guy spanked his date at a party with everyone watching. (First by hand then with a ping pong paddle). This same girl once told me as a I approached a high school club meeting one evening that I should have gotten there earlier since the other guys had bent her over a car and spanked her. (I was so shy I never took her up on an obvious offer!)

    The same club used paddling as part of its initiation. One time we went around the room and each member could swat the pledge in front of the room once. While all the members were other guys there were two girls in the room--the club sweethearts. One of the pleges could not stand the paddling at one point and jumped up grabbing his bottom and crying openly. I doubt there could be anything more humiliating than doing that in front of the girls. When it came time for the girls to paddle him, one of them did have him bend over but she could not go through with the paddling. This episode has been the basis for many of my fantasies--in some he has to get paddled again for getting up or take a bare bottom padddling from the girls. In others I am the one with the choice since I had not been paddled as a pledge. (In anothher version I am spanked by the club sweetheart over her knee because I had not been paddled like everyone else.)

    Another incident involved a high school honor society initiation with both boys and girls where all the pledges were paddled. This time I was also paddled and I was able to watch as each of the girls was paddled as well. Each pledge would jump up and grab his or her bottom when swatted. I often refine that scene for my fantasies. In fact club initiations form one core group of fantasies. If anyone is interested I will develop some in later posts.

    In real life I only faced my real interest as I became older. My first wife occasionally tried to accomodate me but that didn't really work. I found my second wife through Shadow Lane's Stand Corrected. She was as interested in spanking as I was and we have been married for over 15 years.

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  95. B, J, P, S, Y
    Male 50

    About 10 years ago I read a fictionalized story about a young man in his 20's working for an attractive older woman. As punishment for mistakes in his work, she gives him the choice of loosing his job or accepting a hard spanking from her. He accepts the later and must drive to her home that evening for spanking. She lectures him and then marches him into her bedroom, bares his bottom and gives him an severe spanking with her hand and a hairbrush.

    I thought about that for a long time and finally contacted a disciplinarian to act out that fantasy.

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  96. B, J, V, X

    Male; late 30's

    I've no idea where it came from but I can remember even when very young rewriting stories in my head to end with a spanking - Enid Blyton, Famous Five etc ; Anne always got spanked, so did the boys, I was playing around with M/F, F/M, F/F even M/M at that age and kept his going alll through adolescence into adulthood. It was fascinating to discover real spankning literature in my late teens and find that people made a living writing the stories I'd been making up since I was very young. Despite the various combinations I played around with I always thought of myself in the role as spanker and did indeed execute that several times as an adult before, much to my surprise I ended up with K on the receiving end. Miss F knows that story, having kindly read my Live Journal. In the right context, for the right deserving candidate I'd still happlily do the necessary. I don't think you have to always be one or the other - its the way you behave toward each other and what feels right and appropriate to keep domenstic harmony that dictates who needs to get their pants taken down. For a long time I would never have thought it would be me, but I've been getting bare bottom spankings at home for several years now and never been happier.

    R

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  97. E, N, T, X

    Male, 21

    When I was spanked as a child it was not OTK and it wa usually with a belt or wooden spoon. At the time it was not something I anticipated or enjoyed, but I assume that is the root of my interest in it now.

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  98. I, and Z I was never spanked as a child, but I remember about the age of 8 wanting to be spanked OTK, by some of the women in our neighborhood. I am presuming this was because I saw one of my friends spanked bare bottom by his Mom, and she had threatened to put me over her knee when she was finished with him. But she never carried through on that threat. That thought never left me, and I pretty sure that's why I'm a certified spanko today.

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  99. I, K, V, W, X

    Male, 30(God Help me)

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  100. A,C,Y,Z
    Male 58

    My first experience was at age 7 when my step-mother bent me over the footboard of my bed, bared me, then proceeded to spank me with my own belt just to show me who was boss (only six or so fairly soft strokes, but enough to get the point across).

    Not long after, I was sent to the principal's office as I had thrown stones at girl classmates on their way to school. I received four really good bared-assed smacks with what I believe was a standard-issue public school strap used in Canada in the 1950s.

    I "got the strap" a few other times, but this was in the more standard across the palms fashion used on all but the youngest children. It really hasn't affected my thinking, since it really was just punishment. I'd be willing to submit to it now as an experiment; it does have an strange sort of appeal, but I doubt my caring wife would go along with the idea.

    Valentines Day 2007 will be a special anniversary in this lifestyle. Ten Years! Too bad it didn't start sooner! I do intend to be completely reddened and the earlier in the day, the better.

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  101. C,M,P [it was obviouly dorment for over 20 years],y, I think it's the humiliation and embarasment that does it.

    Male 54

    Paddy P.

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  102. C,M,P [it was obviouly dorment for over 20 years],y, I think it's the humiliation and embarasment that does it.

    Male 54

    Paddy P.

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  103. Aunt Loretta's little boy2/20/07, 12:30 PM

    Dear Ms. F, I have been meaning to post a response for quite sometime, hope it is not too late.I am a male 57 years old. C,J,M,Y. I was spanked about a dozen times between 1957 and 1964 by my Aunt with whom I lived with my sickly mother.Although I probably deserved each spanking I received they were all painful and very shameful experiences.They were administered on the bare bottom, over Auntie's knee with her hand and her slipper.A stern scolding and some "cornertime" was all part of her ritual.I grew up with her three daughters who were all subject to the same rules and method of punishment and although the spankings were administered in the privacy of an upstairs parlor everyone in the house knew when one of us was bare bottomed over her knee.One of my cousins was spanked at 17 years old and I received my last one at 15. Again, they were especially humiliating at such an age.Thank you and good luck.

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  104. D, X
    Male, 32

    My parents tell me that when I was three years old my mother delighted me when she made an off-handed remark about spanking my father. I don't remember anything before the age of four so I don't remember that incident but I remember having a strong desire to be spanked by a woman other than my mother even then.

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  105. D,K,N,Z
    57, Male

    Spanked by Mother very hard once over pants standing in front of brother.

    I responded to comics like "The Katzenjammer Kids" and "Nancy" where kids got spanked with fascination, staring and staring, still like it!

    First Adult spanking age 29 over prostitute's knee she did a great job - it hurt (hairbrush).

    I don't get hard but I feel sexually hot and my fantasy life goes stratuspheric!!! Especially if it is a real, ritualistic spanking
    and scolding - WOW!!!!! I am high for weeks!!!

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  106. E,J,K,M
    Male, 54

    I and my siblings were spanked with a belt over our pants routinely by my mother for misbehavior. Over time, any mention of the form of the word "spank" gave me a turn on from my teen years until now. So much so that I have often had to spank myself with a paddle, belt or switch in private to get some kind of relief.

    I saw teenage friends, a sister and brother, get a birthday spanking from friends with a paddle and I was significantly stimulated by this event. The girl was obviously enjoying it.

    I and a friend were spanked hard with a belt by my friend's mom for some kind of misbehavior that I can't remember. I always enjoyed her strictness and remember it to this day.

    I often review these events in my mind as turn ons.

    Over the course of years I have begged and finally talked my wife into spanking me with a paddle, strap or some type of switch. Sometimes these spankings are lighter and purely foreplay, sometimes they are more disciplinary, and often they are some kind of mix. Both types are always very welcomed. Over time, she is slowly letting herself enjoy spanking me. She loves to be in charge, but does not want to hurt me. She has learned over time that I can take quite a lot of beating on my near leather bottom.

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  107. E, X
    Male, 33

    My parents spanked me, but not very often. I was also spanked by a couple different babysitters at different times, but not past 10 or 11 years old. I absolutely dreaded all of these childhood spankings, but sometime during my late teens/early 20's, I really started to be aroused at the idea of being spanked as a punishment. I would (and obviously still do) look up spanking stories or blogs on the internet and conceive of my own spanking fantasies while masturbating. Sometimes I would even spank myself to satisfy these fantasies.

    When I met my wife, I discovered we both had similar interests in spanking. At first we would spank each other as a form of foreplay only, and I would always have to ask her to spank me. Later, it began to develop into more of a disciplinary thing. Sometimes I would spank her if she deserved it (for her attitude or spending too much money or getting a speeding ticket, that sort of thing), and sometimes she would spank me (usually for having a bad attitude or forgetting to pay an important bill on time--and a couple times because she was jealous of some other woman and wanted to "keep me from straying"). This has been our pattern for almost ten years now, but lately it seems to have tapered off. We tend to go through phases where she is more dominant and then through phases where I am more dominant.
    Right now seems to be a pretty inactive period in our spanking relationship, but I've been really craving that kind of discipline lately. As usual, it seems as though I have to be the initiator...a role I don't always like to take

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  108. A,C,J,K,M,X
    Male, 55

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    1. This is me I forgot to tell my story. I was spanked by my mother starting at 6 until I was 14 and started getting erect during spanking. My mom always spanked the same way. She stripped me totally bare no matter where the offense took place or who was present. At 11 my 13 year old neighbor who would baby sit me witnessed my Mom spanking me. After that when ever he watched me I would end up bare and spanked. This escalated to me touching him to preforming oral and finally him taking my cherry at 14. This went on until he left for college at 20.
      I left for college and met Margrett who was absolutly gourgeous with a great body. We started dating about a month after we arrived. I fell very hard for her and I thought she did for me. She was always a little stand offish. I picked her up at her apartment on my motor cycle and went for a ride up in the mountains. i pulled over at a popular spot for hikers and we started up the trail. Holding hands, kissing, I told her as I had many times before I wanted her to be my girlfriend. She got quite and said there are things you don't know about me and I can't be your G.F. After begging, she said I enjoy being in charge sexually I like to control my men by spanking and humiliating them. I was releived as I told her about my childhood and teen years.
      She took me over to some boulders pulled down my shorts and took off my shirt and spanked me and stroked me. Anyway i was with her and anyone else she wanted me to be for 4 years. I stayed to go to graduate school she left me with her roommate who I served for 2 years. I moved to start work she knew a male dom near my job who I served for 2 years and then i met my wife who was a dom. The rest has been wonderful

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  109. D K W

    Male, 54

    Have no clue where the urge came from.

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  110. B. K. N. U. V. X.

    Male, 47.

    (RE 'B'. I once went to see a kinesiology practitioner to try to find out why I like this, and the answer came out was that it came from being spanked by my sister when I was three or four. But I don't remember it, so can't be sure).

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  111. D, X
    Male 50

    Spanking was a common punishment when I was growing up and I only remember one spanking I received as a little boy. It was not something I enjoyed at all; however, even before that, I remember loving the feeling of a cold floor on my bare behind, playing house with girls and getting turned on when we talked about or pretended to spank. My desire increased over time and became more sexual but, beyond fantasizing about the high school girl slumber party taking me prisoner and such, my crescendo of desire never had any outlet until I was at least 40. That's when the combination of finding willing partners on the internet and my frustration reaching its limit met. I'm incredibly frustrated at the lack of spanking in my life and really hope to come across a pretty woman running your hairbrush on train experiment in the Boston area!

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  112. Z. I was spanked at a baby sitters house by her two pre teen daughters while playing house. It started as an over the knee over the clothes but evolved into a nude spanking with corner time. I grew to look forward to being dropped off there. I remember mom asking what we were doing that I enjoyed it there so much. I am still not sure how my babysitter did not hear. Maybe she did and was ok with it. I'll bet those two are currently in a spanking relationship. My wife paddles me regularly both for discipline and for foreplay. I love it!

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  113. I was spanked in school by my woman 3rd grade teacher otk in front of the whole class on my birthday and I thought to myself .Hey,this is fun stuff.I want to get spanked in this manner by women @ every opportunity that presents itself to me.

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  114. Mark 60. A.C.K.N.Z
    I know exactly the point in my life when the lifelong spanking bug first bit.
    First I must explain that my family life while growing up was neither close nor loving. My father was blind and as such, any discipline was always carried out by my mother.
    I was one of three children with an older sister by 5 years and a younger sister by 3 years.
    I vividly remember the first time my mother put me across her knee at the age of 7. I had been playing in the garden with my younger sister - well to be honest we were fighting and squabbling for most of the time and had been warned to stop and play nicely by my mother on numerous occasions. This, of course went in one ear and straight out of the other. Eventually my sister ran crying into my mother to tell her that I had pushed her off one of the bikes she was trying to ride.
    My mother called me into the house and it was clear she was very cross not least because my sister had badly grazed her knee and elbow falling off the bicycle. My mother dragged me by the arm into the kitchen and sat down while explaining how naughty I had been and that she was going to give me a good hiding. She sent my younger sister to get the cane hanging under the stairs - an implement that had never been used on any of us before and was only there because a friend of my mothers had suggested she may need it one day. While my sister was retrieving the cane my mother pulled down my shorts and pants and pulled me across her knee. I didn't know what to think as this had never happened before. I had a mixture of feelings. I was scared and yes I was embarrassed to have my naked bottom on display to both my mother and younger sister. I was cross because I didn't think I was in the wrong but the strange thing is I was also excited - I had feelings I had never experienced before and they were nice feelings.
    The caning I received was not pleasant and I remember crying a lot but when it was over I felt, for the first time, a feeling of being loved - a sense of belonging of being cared for

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  115. otkloverjohn2/21/15, 10:46 PM

    A,C,J,K,N,T,U,V,X
    Male 64

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  116. H, I, K, X. Z.
    Male, 45

    My elementary school/ neighborhood had kids dating/paired up at 8/9 yrs old and I used to pinch and butt slap the stroeg girl I had a crush on and she did it back and I think it started there.

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  117. I WAS SPANKED AS A CHILD BY MY PARENTS. OVER THE YEARS I THINK AND WONDER IF I WERE SPANKED, IT WOULD HAVE HAD AN IMPACT ON MY THINKING. MY WIFE THINKS I AM CRAZY TO EVEN BRING IT UP. I SENSE I NEED THE CONTROL BY WOMEN.

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  118. D, O, W, X
    Male, 56

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