tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6491975116972534172.post4212023023699567365..comments2023-03-12T06:00:37.448-04:00Comments on How To Spank Your Man: POLL: The "Original" Wilder Report I (Where did this all come from?)Monica Wilderhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13777021369099610578noreply@blogger.comBlogger124125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6491975116972534172.post-88980492553673179332020-03-06T15:31:18.442-05:002020-03-06T15:31:18.442-05:00I, T, W, X
Male 55
My desire to be spanked is no...I, T, W, X <br />Male 55<br /><br />My desire to be spanked is not central to my sexuality but rather an extension of my anal fetish, which IS. While I have liked oral sex and intercourse since losing my virginity in college, what I like the most is giving cunnilingus, sometimes with a bit of ass licking, and receiving analingus and anal fingering. My fantasy life centers on being rimmed, fingered, and pegged by women. I've never been pegged, which makes me all the most obsessive about it. My wife doesn't like sex toys but is OK knowing about my collection of dildos, butt plugs, and vibrators that I sometimes use on myself. She does like to rim and finger me, spanks me a little sometimes, and once in a great while satisfies my desire to be soundly spanked, long enough to make my bottom bright red and painful. A couple times she tied me, bent over our sofa with my hands tied in both directions. She spanked me for a long time with her hand, and then with the back of her hairbrush, probably a couple hundred times. She stopped a couple times to lick my anus and balls from behind and also pull back my cock to suck on. The peak experience happened the first time we had such a session, when she had spanked me for a long time and licked and fingered my anus until I was desperately excited. My cock was incredibly hard and dripped precum. Her scolding and laughing made it all the more excited. Just when I thought it was over, and she'd untie me, she started spanking me again, really hard, with the brush. I was deliriously excited. She spanked me maybe a hundred times more and my ass glowed in pain. When she finally untied me, I got down to the floor and kissed both her feet. Then we went to the bedroom, where she finger-fucked as I masturbated to orgasm, almost screaming in pleasure. The best part, though, was when she started spanking me again when I thought it was over. It was one of the greatest experiences of my life.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6491975116972534172.post-30067634137249595222018-12-09T12:58:15.675-05:002018-12-09T12:58:15.675-05:00I, O, T.
I have no idea why I have these desires, ...I, O, T.<br />I have no idea why I have these desires, but it did spark my interest in my early 30's and ever since, I've sought women spanker's for administering discipline.<br />I did one time do a "Pay for Play" with an amazing dominatrix who was over the top (no pun intended) and that experience still brings back fine memories.Susiesunshinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06588749300819450488noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6491975116972534172.post-34240528513799454382018-07-23T11:36:30.759-04:002018-07-23T11:36:30.759-04:00I, Q, S, U, W, X
Male 58I, Q, S, U, W, X<br /><br />Male 58Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6491975116972534172.post-38468100489583612432017-07-15T15:39:40.849-04:002017-07-15T15:39:40.849-04:00D, O, W, X
Male, 56D, O, W, X<br />Male, 56Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6491975116972534172.post-55715361268535654502016-02-22T16:22:40.325-05:002016-02-22T16:22:40.325-05:00I WAS SPANKED AS A CHILD BY MY PARENTS. OVER THE Y...I WAS SPANKED AS A CHILD BY MY PARENTS. OVER THE YEARS I THINK AND WONDER IF I WERE SPANKED, IT WOULD HAVE HAD AN IMPACT ON MY THINKING. MY WIFE THINKS I AM CRAZY TO EVEN BRING IT UP. I SENSE I NEED THE CONTROL BY WOMEN.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6491975116972534172.post-85185860076934700712015-07-26T18:26:17.235-04:002015-07-26T18:26:17.235-04:00
H, I, K, X. Z.
Male, 45
My elementary school/ ne...<br />H, I, K, X. Z.<br />Male, 45<br /><br />My elementary school/ neighborhood had kids dating/paired up at 8/9 yrs old and I used to pinch and butt slap the stroeg girl I had a crush on and she did it back and I think it started there.<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6491975116972534172.post-61341844305296926212015-02-21T22:46:05.744-05:002015-02-21T22:46:05.744-05:00A,C,J,K,N,T,U,V,X
Male 64A,C,J,K,N,T,U,V,X<br />Male 64otkloverjohnnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6491975116972534172.post-27178317204441690842014-12-05T05:01:44.919-05:002014-12-05T05:01:44.919-05:00Mark 60. A.C.K.N.Z
I know exactly the point in my ...Mark 60. A.C.K.N.Z<br />I know exactly the point in my life when the lifelong spanking bug first bit.<br />First I must explain that my family life while growing up was neither close nor loving. My father was blind and as such, any discipline was always carried out by my mother. <br />I was one of three children with an older sister by 5 years and a younger sister by 3 years.<br />I vividly remember the first time my mother put me across her knee at the age of 7. I had been playing in the garden with my younger sister - well to be honest we were fighting and squabbling for most of the time and had been warned to stop and play nicely by my mother on numerous occasions. This, of course went in one ear and straight out of the other. Eventually my sister ran crying into my mother to tell her that I had pushed her off one of the bikes she was trying to ride. <br />My mother called me into the house and it was clear she was very cross not least because my sister had badly grazed her knee and elbow falling off the bicycle. My mother dragged me by the arm into the kitchen and sat down while explaining how naughty I had been and that she was going to give me a good hiding. She sent my younger sister to get the cane hanging under the stairs - an implement that had never been used on any of us before and was only there because a friend of my mothers had suggested she may need it one day. While my sister was retrieving the cane my mother pulled down my shorts and pants and pulled me across her knee. I didn't know what to think as this had never happened before. I had a mixture of feelings. I was scared and yes I was embarrassed to have my naked bottom on display to both my mother and younger sister. I was cross because I didn't think I was in the wrong but the strange thing is I was also excited - I had feelings I had never experienced before and they were nice feelings.<br />The caning I received was not pleasant and I remember crying a lot but when it was over I felt, for the first time, a feeling of being loved - a sense of belonging of being cared for<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6491975116972534172.post-9993040175374629562014-12-04T13:24:07.413-05:002014-12-04T13:24:07.413-05:00SE male 43SE male 43Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6491975116972534172.post-9526243690237972912014-12-04T13:17:54.204-05:002014-12-04T13:17:54.204-05:00I was spanked in school by my woman 3rd grade tea...I was spanked in school by my woman 3rd grade teacher otk in front of the whole class on my birthday and I thought to myself .Hey,this is fun stuff.I want to get spanked in this manner by women @ every opportunity that presents itself to me.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6491975116972534172.post-13995095719185314672013-10-06T15:04:21.294-04:002013-10-06T15:04:21.294-04:00Z. I was spanked at a baby sitters house by her t...Z. I was spanked at a baby sitters house by her two pre teen daughters while playing house. It started as an over the knee over the clothes but evolved into a nude spanking with corner time. I grew to look forward to being dropped off there. I remember mom asking what we were doing that I enjoyed it there so much. I am still not sure how my babysitter did not hear. Maybe she did and was ok with it. I'll bet those two are currently in a spanking relationship. My wife paddles me regularly both for discipline and for foreplay. I love it!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6491975116972534172.post-14390130887106566862013-05-25T12:02:37.971-04:002013-05-25T12:02:37.971-04:00D, X
Male 50
Spanking was a common punishment whe...D, X<br />Male 50<br /><br />Spanking was a common punishment when I was growing up and I only remember one spanking I received as a little boy. It was not something I enjoyed at all; however, even before that, I remember loving the feeling of a cold floor on my bare behind, playing house with girls and getting turned on when we talked about or pretended to spank. My desire increased over time and became more sexual but, beyond fantasizing about the high school girl slumber party taking me prisoner and such, my crescendo of desire never had any outlet until I was at least 40. That's when the combination of finding willing partners on the internet and my frustration reaching its limit met. I'm incredibly frustrated at the lack of spanking in my life and really hope to come across a pretty woman running your hairbrush on train experiment in the Boston area!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6491975116972534172.post-20671774971829778232013-04-14T06:01:54.495-04:002013-04-14T06:01:54.495-04:00B. K. N. U. V. X.
Male, 47.
(RE 'B'. I ...B. K. N. U. V. X. <br /><br />Male, 47.<br /><br />(RE 'B'. I once went to see a kinesiology practitioner to try to find out why I like this, and the answer came out was that it came from being spanked by my sister when I was three or four. But I don't remember it, so can't be sure). Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6491975116972534172.post-1772267324243367852012-11-29T05:42:59.093-05:002012-11-29T05:42:59.093-05:00D K W
Male, 54
Have no clue where the urge came ...D K W<br /><br />Male, 54<br /><br />Have no clue where the urge came from.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13798164740596219545noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6491975116972534172.post-33054102467252742212012-09-20T08:14:02.523-04:002012-09-20T08:14:02.523-04:00This is me I forgot to tell my story. I was spanke...This is me I forgot to tell my story. I was spanked by my mother starting at 6 until I was 14 and started getting erect during spanking. My mom always spanked the same way. She stripped me totally bare no matter where the offense took place or who was present. At 11 my 13 year old neighbor who would baby sit me witnessed my Mom spanking me. After that when ever he watched me I would end up bare and spanked. This escalated to me touching him to preforming oral and finally him taking my cherry at 14. This went on until he left for college at 20.<br /> I left for college and met Margrett who was absolutly gourgeous with a great body. We started dating about a month after we arrived. I fell very hard for her and I thought she did for me. She was always a little stand offish. I picked her up at her apartment on my motor cycle and went for a ride up in the mountains. i pulled over at a popular spot for hikers and we started up the trail. Holding hands, kissing, I told her as I had many times before I wanted her to be my girlfriend. She got quite and said there are things you don't know about me and I can't be your G.F. After begging, she said I enjoy being in charge sexually I like to control my men by spanking and humiliating them. I was releived as I told her about my childhood and teen years. <br />She took me over to some boulders pulled down my shorts and took off my shirt and spanked me and stroked me. Anyway i was with her and anyone else she wanted me to be for 4 years. I stayed to go to graduate school she left me with her roommate who I served for 2 years. I moved to start work she knew a male dom near my job who I served for 2 years and then i met my wife who was a dom. The rest has been wonderfulAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6491975116972534172.post-39984551863146203612012-09-20T06:43:29.825-04:002012-09-20T06:43:29.825-04:00A,C,J,K,M,X
Male, 55A,C,J,K,M,X<br />Male, 55Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6491975116972534172.post-81016246059505794332012-07-21T03:25:45.806-04:002012-07-21T03:25:45.806-04:00E, X
Male, 33
My parents spanked me, but not very...E, X<br />Male, 33<br /><br />My parents spanked me, but not very often. I was also spanked by a couple different babysitters at different times, but not past 10 or 11 years old. I absolutely dreaded all of these childhood spankings, but sometime during my late teens/early 20's, I really started to be aroused at the idea of being spanked as a punishment. I would (and obviously still do) look up spanking stories or blogs on the internet and conceive of my own spanking fantasies while masturbating. Sometimes I would even spank myself to satisfy these fantasies.<br /><br />When I met my wife, I discovered we both had similar interests in spanking. At first we would spank each other as a form of foreplay only, and I would always have to ask her to spank me. Later, it began to develop into more of a disciplinary thing. Sometimes I would spank her if she deserved it (for her attitude or spending too much money or getting a speeding ticket, that sort of thing), and sometimes she would spank me (usually for having a bad attitude or forgetting to pay an important bill on time--and a couple times because she was jealous of some other woman and wanted to "keep me from straying"). This has been our pattern for almost ten years now, but lately it seems to have tapered off. We tend to go through phases where she is more dominant and then through phases where I am more dominant.<br />Right now seems to be a pretty inactive period in our spanking relationship, but I've been really craving that kind of discipline lately. As usual, it seems as though I have to be the initiator...a role I don't always like to takeAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6491975116972534172.post-47580670705962647662012-05-04T05:28:38.408-04:002012-05-04T05:28:38.408-04:00E,J,K,M
Male, 54
I and my siblings were spanked w...E,J,K,M<br />Male, 54<br /><br />I and my siblings were spanked with a belt over our pants routinely by my mother for misbehavior. Over time, any mention of the form of the word "spank" gave me a turn on from my teen years until now. So much so that I have often had to spank myself with a paddle, belt or switch in private to get some kind of relief. <br /><br />I saw teenage friends, a sister and brother, get a birthday spanking from friends with a paddle and I was significantly stimulated by this event. The girl was obviously enjoying it. <br /><br />I and a friend were spanked hard with a belt by my friend's mom for some kind of misbehavior that I can't remember. I always enjoyed her strictness and remember it to this day.<br /><br />I often review these events in my mind as turn ons.<br /><br />Over the course of years I have begged and finally talked my wife into spanking me with a paddle, strap or some type of switch. Sometimes these spankings are lighter and purely foreplay, sometimes they are more disciplinary, and often they are some kind of mix. Both types are always very welcomed. Over time, she is slowly letting herself enjoy spanking me. She loves to be in charge, but does not want to hurt me. She has learned over time that I can take quite a lot of beating on my near leather bottom.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6491975116972534172.post-1841906043932354152006-09-06T06:47:00.000-04:002006-09-06T06:47:00.000-04:00Hi Miss F glad you are back.That Edna seem a bit s...Hi Miss F glad you are back.That Edna seem a bit special but I digress<br>So I will go with H.M.W.and X<br><br>I am 59 now and just an ordinary male.Always wanted to be spanked over the knee of a mature woman for some kind of teenage misdeed which I have to say I got away with a few.<br>I recently found a domestic disciplinarian who I had a great roleplay session with. I hope to revisit.<br>It cannot be very often i am afraid my Wife who I love cannot enjoy this desire with me. So I have to approach it with the utmost discretion.<br>Take care, Ddactarsspeednoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6491975116972534172.post-57371295937685743192006-09-06T07:24:00.000-04:002006-09-06T07:24:00.000-04:00J, X and Z. Spanking was commmon when I was a kid,...J, X and Z. <br><br>Spanking was commmon when I was a kid, and though my parents didn't spank, hearing about it titillated me. At 11, I was ritualistically spanked by a male teacher (not bare bottomed but in front of other kids.) At 14, I witnesssed a 13 year old neighbor girl getting strapped bare bottemed by her father for pulling her pants down in front of me.<br><br>I have been interested in getting spanked by a woman since I was 14.Whiptnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6491975116972534172.post-76326699468187550562006-09-06T10:11:00.000-04:002006-09-06T10:11:00.000-04:00Survey ...Survey C Spanked bare bottom by my Aunt,never excited at the time(only sore and humiliated)but would find myself thinking about it weeks or even months later. J Overheard older female cousin getting bare bottom spanking and got excited thinking what it must have looked like. M Like to roleplay getting bare bottom spanking for transgressions " I got away with". Z I am not sure I ever really get sexually aroused when I reflect back on my spanking experiences as much as it arouses feelings deep in my soul that I only feel when try to deal with these uniqe feelings. A spanking was always a painful and embarrassing ordeal for me but years later I get a good feeling about these experiences. Male---- 56 years old Many ThanksAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6491975116972534172.post-82209426031985565072006-09-06T18:33:00.000-04:002006-09-06T18:33:00.000-04:00welcome back !Male here 59A,L,N,X,YLove how a hard...welcome back !<br><br>Male here 59<br>A,L,N,X,Y<br><br>Love how a hard spanking and corner time fills me with a feeling of peace.Am fortunate to have met a woman who delivers this needed spanking on a weekly basis.Peternoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6491975116972534172.post-18104004843279151232006-09-07T00:24:00.000-04:002006-09-07T00:24:00.000-04:00B. J. L. X. Male 47When I was young, preteen, a gi...B. J. L. X. <br><br>Male 47<br><br>When I was young, preteen, a girl of similar age lived downstairs from me. We would play a house like game in which we would cut switches and whip each other's bare bottoms. I definitely liked to receive better than to give. Spankings have turned me on ever since.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6491975116972534172.post-90552146957957297922006-09-07T03:03:00.000-04:002006-09-07T03:03:00.000-04:00M, N, W.Im a male, 49, living in Europe. I just LO...M, N, W.<br><br><br>Im a male, 49, living in Europe. I just LOVE this site - it´s wonderful to know, that I´m not the only person in the world, who is spanked OTK.<br><br>I discovered this in my 20´s - and suggested this to my wife, at about 25 years of age. She wouldn´t participate, so I had to go to a pro, - and was spanked OTK. It was a wonderful experience, and I have been spanked by this Lady ever since. As written, I´m 48, and she is now 69, - it´s a very special feeling, to getting your bottom spanked by a mature, very experienced Lady, who knows all about spanking over the knee, humiliation, corner time, etc.<br>I have suggested it again to my wife some months ago, and I was exstremely happy when she said ; "well, okay an over the knee spanking maybe is a good idea, - I really wonder, how it must feel, to spank you - hmm - well let´s look into it, in the near future".<br>Can you imagine how happy I got ?<br>She is now on vacation in Greece, and have been for 14 days. She is gonna come home Sunday, and I have been writing a long letter to her, begging her, to please make rules, house rules, bedtime rules (early bedtime for me when spanked and so on). 2 times not so long ago, she punished me with very early bedtime, so she is starting to discipline me - so - I´m really hoping for my first bare bottom spanking over the knee, from my wife, when she returns by this Sunday.<br>Sorry, this was mayby to long ?<br><br>Regards<br>TomAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6491975116972534172.post-75038170068006308902006-09-07T03:59:00.000-04:002006-09-07T03:59:00.000-04:00D, XMale, 40sMy childhood spankings were rare, mil...D, X<br>Male, 40s<br><br>My childhood spankings were rare, mild (a few whacks), and have no erotic associations for me. My interest in being dominated by women - of which spanking is but one aspect - arose in early adolescence, commingled with my first sexual fantasies. I can't pinpoint a particular observation or encounter that triggered it.Ferulehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05142917066446839018noreply@blogger.com